The Band That Unites

Wedding bands are the most significant pieces of jewelry one wears through life. A wedding band symbolizes the commitment made by the bride and groom to each other. The exchange is witnessed by families and friends, as part of the traditional wedding ceremony. It is the one piece of jewelry that is never removed, so it's imperative that it's an easy and comfortable fit, as well as the right style choice.

The couple should spend time researching jewelry stores and the Internet for available styles and materials before making a final decision. They will gain a better perspective on their mutual choice.

Gold, white gold, and platinum are the materials that are traditionally used in crafting the band, and the couple, being mindful of quality and durability, must choose 14k or 18k gold, although titanium is an accepted, less expensive choice for a man. The bands can be tailored to the couple's preferences by a special engraving or finish. Precious gemstones like diamonds can be worked into the design.

It is common for couples to have matching wedding bands to symbolize their commitment to each other. But the choices are open. They may choose or create matching bands, or they can coordinate a style that is similar but more suited to their individual tastes, utilizing one matching element such as an engraved pattern, style such as Victorian, contemporary, etc. or gemstone. If they differ on the choice of material, perhaps both materials can be crafted into the band.

If they each differ widely in choice, the uniting factor can still be maintained by an engraving on the inside of the band. Names or a significant sentiment will unite the bands. If this is their choice, they should be sure to order custom made bands ahead of time, so they are ready by the wedding day.